I do most of my cleaning in a blitz on a Saturday morning so I am free to enjoy the weekend in a clean house. Sure I tidy as I go, do dishes etc through the week but not really cleaning. It takes about 2 hours total to do everything and I start between 6-7am so it’s all done by 9am. Washing I do on a Saturday - 2-3 loads. I feel like I then have plenty of time to play with the kids, walk the dog etc.
I definitely don’t have insane standards - I change bedding every other week and alternate which beds need doing each week. I don’t feel the need to wash everyone’s clothes after every wear so that reduces the washing too. I get the kids involved in cleaning - usually I Hoover and then they Hoover the living room again (they particularly like hoovering the sofa) so that keeps them occupied. We have a lot of Kallax boxes and I organise the toys so they are easy to tidy away each day. Xxx