zickzackduck
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EDIT: I have never been so overwhelmed. You have all been such a massive help! I can't thank you enough for all your advice, support and information.
I hope you all get the help you need and support you all deserve
Thank you so so much again
A little bit of a worried mum here.
I know a lot of people on this group, so if you do know me, you'll know I love my boys with all my heart. I'm a confident, outgoing, happy person.
I'm having a tough time at the moment, although I won't show it.
I have 2 gorgeous boys (21 and 17).
My 17 year old has recently had an adhd assessment and has been told he's likely going to be diagnosed with adhd. He's been referred, so just need to hear it officially.
As his mum, he's loving, caring and I have done my best to make him happy.
Unfortunately with his adhd, he has no filter and can often say things out loud, which others wouldn't. He doesn't think about the consequences.
He has upset a few people and now he's being judged for his mistakes.
I'm sad for him because he doesn't understand and finds it ridiculous and hard to understand.
I've had to put up with people talking about him behind his back and it's all just getting to me.
I'm just wondering if anyone has been through this situation and wondering how you deal with it?
He really isn't a bad kid. He tells me "I wish I could think like you mum"
Can you give me advice on how to deal with this until the official diagnosis.
Thank you from a sad mum
I hope you all get the help you need and support you all deserve
Thank you so so much again
A little bit of a worried mum here.
I know a lot of people on this group, so if you do know me, you'll know I love my boys with all my heart. I'm a confident, outgoing, happy person.
I'm having a tough time at the moment, although I won't show it.
I have 2 gorgeous boys (21 and 17).
My 17 year old has recently had an adhd assessment and has been told he's likely going to be diagnosed with adhd. He's been referred, so just need to hear it officially.
As his mum, he's loving, caring and I have done my best to make him happy.
Unfortunately with his adhd, he has no filter and can often say things out loud, which others wouldn't. He doesn't think about the consequences.
He has upset a few people and now he's being judged for his mistakes.
I'm sad for him because he doesn't understand and finds it ridiculous and hard to understand.
I've had to put up with people talking about him behind his back and it's all just getting to me.
I'm just wondering if anyone has been through this situation and wondering how you deal with it?
He really isn't a bad kid. He tells me "I wish I could think like you mum"
Can you give me advice on how to deal with this until the official diagnosis.
Thank you from a sad mum