Edit- thank you everyone for your opinions. I'm set on the rule so it won't be changing. She will hand over her phone at 11pm whether she likes it or not.
For those who have said, let her make the mistake she will learn... she basically stayed up all night on her phone 3/4 nights a week for about 2 months, went to school with no sleep, fell asleep in mock exams and was well and truly failing. She was being horrible to her brothers and sisters, was getting severely anxious resulting in panic attacks all because she clearly isn't mature enough yet to make a good decision for her health when it comes to her phone. I understand let them make their mistakes, but that was only in January/February of this year. I trusted her to have the phone in her room again only 2 weeks ago... and again, up all night. Compromised has been done to death.... 11pm bed and phone left downstairs, because its best for her health, they don't always learn
Hey everyone... some advice needed please!
My 16 year old has just finished her exams/school. She shares a room with her sister who is just turning 12. As a rule we expect that at bedtimes, phones are left downstairs as she has a habit of staying on it all night (she was doing this even on school days). She's telling me her friends can have theirs, so she should have hers until 1 am, she will put brightness down etc not to disturb her sister... that if she lacks sleep that's her problem not mine!
I've flat out told her no. The rule will stay in place whether she likes it or not. It's non negotiable. I don't trust that it will be turned off at 1am, and tbh, even then, I don't want my 16 year old up till 1am with her face glued to her phone.
Can I have your opinions please?
For those who have said, let her make the mistake she will learn... she basically stayed up all night on her phone 3/4 nights a week for about 2 months, went to school with no sleep, fell asleep in mock exams and was well and truly failing. She was being horrible to her brothers and sisters, was getting severely anxious resulting in panic attacks all because she clearly isn't mature enough yet to make a good decision for her health when it comes to her phone. I understand let them make their mistakes, but that was only in January/February of this year. I trusted her to have the phone in her room again only 2 weeks ago... and again, up all night. Compromised has been done to death.... 11pm bed and phone left downstairs, because its best for her health, they don't always learn
Hey everyone... some advice needed please!
My 16 year old has just finished her exams/school. She shares a room with her sister who is just turning 12. As a rule we expect that at bedtimes, phones are left downstairs as she has a habit of staying on it all night (she was doing this even on school days). She's telling me her friends can have theirs, so she should have hers until 1 am, she will put brightness down etc not to disturb her sister... that if she lacks sleep that's her problem not mine!
I've flat out told her no. The rule will stay in place whether she likes it or not. It's non negotiable. I don't trust that it will be turned off at 1am, and tbh, even then, I don't want my 16 year old up till 1am with her face glued to her phone.
Can I have your opinions please?