Self care.
As a woman of a certain age, I'm perimenopausal, struggling a lot with the changes (thanks again mum!) I'm on hrt, having anger management counselling (best one that I was offered) but one thing that keeps coming up is what I do for self care, well the answer is simple not a lot, I'm a single mum to an 11 year old (he's with me 98% of the time), I work full-time, I look after the household etc. I used to get a break every other weekend so I had time to recharge, for various reasons that's not happening now. So I struggle putting myself first, my son has taught me some valuable lessons, this one being most important, we had guests this weekend, including 13 for lunch, after they went he excused himself and said he needed sometime out, went to his room and did just that he played, he watched YouTube, he read, he did what makes him happy, I struggle so badly with saying I need time just to be, I'm making a rule that for at least 30 minutes a day I do that now.
I hope that this helps x
Thank you for kind comments, I'm really going to try and make sure I stick to my 30 minutes a day and see works for me best x
As a woman of a certain age, I'm perimenopausal, struggling a lot with the changes (thanks again mum!) I'm on hrt, having anger management counselling (best one that I was offered) but one thing that keeps coming up is what I do for self care, well the answer is simple not a lot, I'm a single mum to an 11 year old (he's with me 98% of the time), I work full-time, I look after the household etc. I used to get a break every other weekend so I had time to recharge, for various reasons that's not happening now. So I struggle putting myself first, my son has taught me some valuable lessons, this one being most important, we had guests this weekend, including 13 for lunch, after they went he excused himself and said he needed sometime out, went to his room and did just that he played, he watched YouTube, he read, he did what makes him happy, I struggle so badly with saying I need time just to be, I'm making a rule that for at least 30 minutes a day I do that now.
I hope that this helps x
Thank you for kind comments, I'm really going to try and make sure I stick to my 30 minutes a day and see works for me best x