Living with Grief: A Personal Journey of Loss, Love, and Healing

Sending love! Lost my grandad February 2021, my nan October 2021 and then my mum April 2022 -(whilst I was 24 weeks pregnant) some days are unbearable but I feel incredibly lucky to have my kids getting me through x
 
Recently my nanny died 2/3 weeks ago, my grandad died 7/8 weeks ago. So we are defo going through a rubbish time at the moment. Grief is defo close to our hearts as my grandparents were people who we saw every day. X
 
I needed to see this, Friday will be 2 years without my mum. She was 53 and due to misdiagnosis cancer took her 💔 sending lots of love and hugs to you ❤️🫂
 
@lynn67 so sorry for your loss too. My mum was told for 6 months that it definitely wasn't cancer and probably her brain forgetting how to swallow. The consultant at the hospital said to us if it had been found when she first started struggling she could have been saved 💔 after diagnosis her gp said he ruled out voicebox cancer as she wasn't a male in her 60s. Sending lots of love and hugs to you xx
 
@acilbib that's so awful 😢I'm aware there's human error but we trust these people to look after us. I've suffered terribly with health anxiety since. And to you x
 
@acilbib same thing here. My dad was fobbed off for over 6months saying a suspicious lump was a simple cyst. By the time they diagnosed skin cancer it had already got to stage 4. I know it's not helpful but I still wonder daily what would have happened if the first doctor he saw took it seriously.
 
@thepowerofprayer1968 I'm wonder exactly the same and from what the consultant said when he was told what happened, mum could have been saved 💔 the what ifs are so awful aren't they? My mums gp suddenly retired a few months after we lost her, he had been our gp for over 30 years. A friend of mines twin sister is now terminal after being fobbed off for months also.
 
I really needed to read this today. I am so sorry for your loss.
We lost my Dad suddenly on May 12th of this year, he was 58. It's still so raw and I am tired of feeling upset, guilty and angry on repeated cycles.
Sending you a big hug, thank you again for your post x
 
This so absolutely how it is. It hurts and it drains you, your not the same person. You change in that split second of what is only hell in my eyes. My dad was taken too soon, heart attack. He was fit and healthy. He was taken 2 years ago. He was 52. I was that little girl. I found him, I live with it every single day. It doesn’t leave you. It haunts you and right now, there is no end in sight. I just ride this thing called grief every single day. I feel your pain. My dad was lucky enough to spend time with his grandchildren. But life will never be the same again. He won’t walk me down the isle or dance through the night either. It hurts every time you see it happen all over again in your head. Every single night you close your eyes. Dreams, memories it’s all just so cruel. Enjoy every second with your Dad if you still have him ♥️
 
@shy3 that’s so sad. I’m so sorry for you. My son, who was 9 at the time, walked me down the aisle with a photo of my dad in his pocket. It was magical and I knew he was with me.
It’s very cruel. Sending lots of love and strength 🤍🤍
 
I lost my mum 2 years ago to cancer, not a day goes by that I don't think of her. I miss making memories with her and doing all the things we used to do. Grief is terrible thing and it never goes away 😞 💔
 
Next week is the 6 year anniversary of the death of my best friend. Grief hit me like a ton of bricks this morning so I find this post really comforting ❤️ I don't know why but I thought this year's anniversary was going to feel easier.
 
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